The Headless Guide To BlogHer '09- The Clothes

I'm a sophomore attendee, and while there are many that have more experience than I do, not many will write about it with only one year under their belt. Last year I was nervous and excited-like many of you that are going for the first time. I need not have been nervous at all. Everyone I met, and I mean everyone, was nice, helpful, and genuinely glad to meet new people. Yeah, even the "big time" bloggers were personable and fun. Honestly, I haven't ever been in a large group of women that were that nice before. Were there issues? Maybe, but I don't remember any, was not involved in any, and you probably won't be, either.

The Clothes

I was worried about clothes, too. Last year I wore capris during the day. That was comfortable for ME. That may or may not be comfortable for you. I saw plenty of people in jeans, and plenty of people in business casual slacks or skirts. (Many of those were presenters, but not all.) I HIGHLY SUGGEST a sweater because the conference rooms can be cold. (You know that cardigan that you have that is 5 years old but works with everything? Bring that one.) Basically? What ever you like and feel good in, and can wear for about 10 hours comfortably, carry a bag on your shoulder, and still balance your phone/notebook/business card holder.

At night I changed into dresses. I had several other occasions that I had bought dresses for last summer and since I had them I decided to wear them. I may or may not change this year. My suggestion, (and one that I may take myself!) is to take a skirt or 2 that will coordinate with your tops and if you feel like changing, you can. Some women did not change because they took that time to go to a shwag suite, or to have a drink with friends. That's fine. There is not a dress code or a bouncer at the door.

A word about shoes: I enjoyed wearing heels last year. I am a SAHM and you can usually find me in my Birkenstocks. BlogHer is my chance to bring out my nice clothes, and that applies to my shoes as well. I do fine in heels, many do not. Remember, during the day with the exception of going between conference rooms, you will be sitting down; at the cocktail parties you will be standing. Use that as a guide to your footwear. And if you are someone who's feet hurt all the time anyway? Don't count out your tennies, or at least flats. Your feet will thank you.

Tune in next time for thoughts about the rest of the BlogHer experience!